Sunday, February 28, 2016

FEB 29 2016 - PUREED STAGE

FEB 29 2016 - PUREED STAGE
Starting Tomorrow!
(Yippi & Yikes all at the same time)!

Dr. Zavalza's Post-Op Diet-------------------------STAGE 3 (17-30 days after surgery)
Blended or pureed stage. Try to consume up to 500 calories.
Pureed Tuna
Scrambled eggs
Pureed beans
Cottage cheese
4 oz of Greek Yogurt
Broths
Protein Shakes
Water
Ground Ice
SF Jello
SF Gatorade

Phase II can be summarized as soft foods which can be easily mashed (non-carb), eaten with a spoon and can be tolerated easily (Protein first). This stage continues to allow your system to heal and slowly adjust to more dense foods. Attempting portions that are too large or advancing too rapidly into foods that are very dense or hard can cause food getting “stuck”, vomiting, and pouch irritation. This will be very painful. Talk to friends with kids, and ask for their kids small utensils, eat off of side plates or small bowls. Take a bite and chew it 30 times before swallowing.
Remember as your diet advances the liquids should remain separated from the solids. If you drink while eating you will push food through the pouch and speed up the emptying of the pouch. This will both make room to eat more, but be very painful, and push the food back up to vomiting. Try to limit the vomiting so you can absorb the nutrients ingested. Remind yourself that vomiting at this stage is normal as your new sleeve is being introduced to food again for the first time. Foods you previously ate, could not agree with your new sleeve. Someone who ate chicken their whole life, may not tolerate this anymore, and on the flip side people who hated beans may notice their sleeve enjoys them now. So be patient with yourself and proceed slowly.

During Phase II it is important to focus on adequate nutritional intake and inclusion of protein rich foods. The objective is to increase your intake while minimizing chewing and easing the digestive process. Stage II is also referred to as a pureed diet and all foods should resemble a baby-food consistency. Many people gravitate towards carbohydrates that include mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes and fruit but you need to remind yourself these foods will not agree with your new sleeve and should be avoided. These foods can be part of the meal plan if they agree with your sleeve but it is important that you meet your protein requirements first. Please keep in mind that baby-food is meant for growing babies and therefore although you might be able to tolerate its texture, it is not often an optimal nutritional choice at this stage.

Phase II Diet Reminders


  •  You must continue to have protein shakes between one and three times a day to meet your protein target, but try to eat more soft solids each day.
  • If you find that you are not hungry, then a protein shake can be substituted in place of a scheduled meal.
  • Take small bites and estimate them to be about the size of a dime.
  • Chew thoroughly before swallowing. Be sure that the food is apple sauce consistency before you swallow.
  • Continue to drink slowly. Sip on non-caloric liquids throughout the day but stop drinking around meal times. Stop drinking 30 minutes BEFORE meal time and start drinking 60 minutes AFTER meal times. This will ensure that your pouch can hold solid foods and you will not experience nausea/vomiting.
  • Continue to meet your protein target goal. You may use protein supplements until you are able to get all your protein from solid foods.
  • Set consistent meal times and stick to these meal times to avoid emotional eating. Eat every 4 hours while you are awake. Do not go over 5 hours without eating anything.

Phase II Allowed vs. Avoid Food List

Food Group

Allowed

Avoid

Beverages

Water and ice chips, decaffeinated tea,  sugar free cocoa, crystal light, sugar-free Kool-aid, sugar-free Tang, sugar-free lemonade, diet Snapple, diet V-8 Splash, non-caloric flavored waterAll sugar sweetened drinks, alcoholic beverages, coffee, caffeinated beverages, carbonated beverages

Starches

Cooked cereal, cream of rice, cream of wheat, Malt-O-Meal, thinned grits or oatmeal, mashed potatoes, mashed sweet potatoes, baked potatoes, baked beansSugar-sweetened cereals, cold cereals, pasta and all other starches

Fruits

Cooked or canned fruits. Be sure that the canned fruits are packed in their own juice and without sugar addedRaw fruits and sugary juices. Fruits that cannot be peeled like orange and grapefruit.

Dairy

Skim or fat free milk, low-fat yogurt, low-fat or fat-free cottage cheeseAll others

Meat

Egg, canned chicken, shaved deli meats, almost any type of fish cooked by baking, boiling, slow cooker, foil wrappedBeef, dry meat or poultry. Cooking methods: grilling, frying

Vegetables

Cooked or canned vegetables. Be sure to choose low sodium vegetables. Must be able to mash with fork.Raw vegetables, stringy vegetables

Fats

I can’t believe it’s not butter cooking spraySaturated fats, butter, margarine

Other

Sugar free popsicle, sugar free jello.You may choose low sugar baby food protein.Sugar sweetened desserts, mixed dishes like lasagna

Please try a different variety of soft foods. Remember that if you feel full or have nausea then the best thing to do is to slow down a bit. Decrease your portion sizes and consider going back to 24 hours of just clear liquids again. It is normal to have some days better than others.

Sample Phase II Diet


Sample Day #1

Meal 1 – Oatmeal cooked with skim milk
Meal 2 – Boiled, shredded chicken mixed with light mayo
Meal 3 – Baked salmon
Meal 4 – Mashed peaches with fat-free cottage cheese

Sample Day #2

Meal 1 – Soft scrambled eggs
Meal 2 – Baked black beans with fat free sour cream and mashed avocado
Meal 3 – Canned tuna with light mayo
Meal 4 – Low fat, smooth yogurt

Sample Day #3

Meal 1 – Malt O meal cooked with skim milk
Meal 2 – Baked sweet potato
Meal 3 – Baked fish
Meal 4 – Shredded cheese and scrambled egg

Be sure to measure your food by volume. You should not exceed 4 ounces by volume of food at this time. Remember to take small bite size and chew well before swallowing. Be patient with yourself, and if you throw up, try again. Give yourself 10 minutes and start eating again. It will be trial and error, a learning period as your sleeve is reintroduced to food.
Continue to drink non caloric, non-carbonated, decaffeinated fluids in between meals.

Stay Tuned~ Nat
Body/Mind Under Construction

Saturday, February 27, 2016

FEB 27 2016

FEB 27 2016

This week summed up into two words would be HEAD HUNGER.

Monday:

We all went for a family walk which was really nice. Since my accident I couldn't take my dog on my own as I am sore and cant hold the leash, however it was awesome having Chris come and my puppy coming as well.  This whole getting healthy is so good for us all, and I cant wait for more out door activities to come. Yes sore now from the accident however, in time that too will pass and I will be able to do more. Cant wait.
*I have quite a rash from the surgery tapes, and I am finding a combination of coconut oils, and vitamin E cream seem to be helping. The itching is from the wounds getting better. They look pretty good at this point. I am quite happy with how I am feeling, and am slowly learning how to eat (drink) and how much my new sleeve can handle. I still get the pain when the food hits my belly, but have managed to  start being able to tell when my sleeve is full. I have to concentrate a lot while drinking. If distracted at all, I drink to much, and it hurts a lot.
 Chris and Bailey walking by the bay.

 Chris and Bailey

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Tuesday:
I find now that I am getting some sleep, I wake up suddenly with pain. I'm not sore and haven't been for days from the surgery, however two times now I have woken up with a pain, but I think it is just the incision and perhaps me stretching in while I fall into deeper sleep patterns. It lasts a few seconds, I readjust and I am good again.
I have been putting vitamin E on the wounds, and it has all cleared up quite nicely. We got some rubbing alcohol to finally get all the bandage and tape residue off which is awesome.
Losing weight: I am losing weight at a rapid speed, and wish it were always this easy, But know that when I start Pureed this will slow down so enjoying each pound I see fall from the scale at this point. I know people are starting to see a difference yet I can not as of yet which is frustrating, but I do see my clothes starting to be to big in some areas and that is pretty cool. It too will come!
Today we went for a great walk to Cowichan River Provincial Park, where my mom came this time which was quite nice. I am so happy that we are all doing this, we are all in this, and all a part of the change. All supportive not only in words but actions. I am so loved, and I feel it.





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Wednesday
So today I woke up stiff and sore from accident, but as far as my belly goes, I am feeling fine. I struggle daily with wanting to eat, I gotta stop saying hungry as that isn't possible anymore, but I want food. I am surrounded. Its on TV, in my fridge, at restaurants, gat stations, at store I go into. And why is it that all the bad for you foods are everywhere.
Pizza, bread, carbs, carbs, carbs....seriously I gotta stop going to the bakery....no joking. Chris asked me why I'm into making out so much right now. He is on a need to know bases, however I wanna make out with him after he eats so I can taste the food residue on his lips. YUM. Sneak eats without the calories....and Chris is happy. win win.
Today was nice as I drove for the first time, and that felt good. I felt good doing a real activity. I went shopping alone to look for a new Carpet. It was cool just getting out.

*Here are a few BiG Moments this week:
~I got in the car and this is the first time my belly didn't rest on the steering wheel.



~I walked out into the living room with my PJs on and the pants fell to the floor.
~I pulled out some old jeans I have that I couldn't fit into for 3 years, and not only did they fit, but were too big.
~I wore a shirt that didn't fit me a year ago.
~Tried on my Wedding Dress from last April....no chance. didn't even have to unzip to get into it.
~Have NOT taken my diabetic meds since surgery and my sugars have been perfect each day. AMAZING!

I was really tired today, and with all the running around didn't get close to my quota of food intake. Went for a bowl of soup with a friend today. So important to get out and meet up with friends. Its not good to stay inside. You must get out and put yourself into environments that are challenging. I WLS told me she is scared to go out and be surrounded by food, but for me I have to put myself into those situations so I make better choices, and doing it with friends helps. I went for soup with friend, and the soup arrived with garlic bread. As soon as it hit the table I asked her to grab it off plate and move it far far away. Seems dramatic yes, but I have to make those choices, and for me right now that food was crack. I couldn't even touch it. It was like asking a heron addict to hold a needle fill with their drug of choice. She grabbed it right away, and I could breath again.
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Thursday:
*Pre-Oppers:
Here are some great WLS utube videos to follow. Very inspiring and helpful, with a splash of laugh. They are raw, real and so good if you want more information.
~Awernersbach
~drea vsg
~Laurenlosing
~ClusieL
~fly girl fitness vsg
~Mellie May


NOTE TO SELF:

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Friday:

So Yesterday was my first Counselling appointment, and phone call appointment with a dietician who specializes with WLS patients. Is this a 'must do' thing. No, But for me when I set out on this journey, I committed myself 100%. In all that I am and all that I have, I want to make sure this is successful, that I look after not only the physical aspects of weight loss but the emotional/mental aspects as well. Am I perfect...absolutely...lol, never! I find I am a very self aware person, I know my faults, I know my weaknesses, and I know when something is more than I alone could control, which as you know is hard for me. I hate looking weak, asking for help, and my pride rarely lets me accept others help. AGAIN, I am aware of this, so stepping so far out of my comfort zone is key to succeeding at this whole process. This is one thing in my life I will make sure I succeed at.

I knew before I had the surgery that I was going to get the help all around I needed. I set out at the beginning of this process with lists and list (sure you know that about me) of pros and cons, and so many of the cons came with how I would be 2 months out, 6 months out or when I was gonna be able to eat again. My concerns were not of weight gain per say but how I would feel at stalls, gains, or no movements. Its great for someone to say, there will be stalls, weeks of no weight loss, there may be gains, and its just your body adjusting, BUT the reality is mentally I know this will happen, however in those moments I know I will take it hard and not know how to cope.

I also know about myself that I self sabotage myself when things are going good. The moment someone says you look good, or I can see the weight loss, or anything positive, I run and grab a cheese burger. I am a pretty outgoing person, a confident person, but I also am a very 'behind the scenes' person. As outgoing as I am, I am very shy, and quite reserved in my life. I am a home body, and if I cant be in control of situations I usually avoid them. Meaning, If in the summer, I get invited to a friends BBQ, I will come up with an excuse not to go. What goes through my head isn't how much fun I would have with friends, but its boiling out and I will sweat like a pig, I cant be seen in shorts, I don't want people to be starting at me, I gotta cover up. It was so bad I would become paralyzed by anxiety, and come up with a lie to get out of it. Well you do that enough times and people stop asking you out, and that hurts, and then comes the food to comfort you...a horrible cycle.
Part of this journey for me is to get out with friends, to make dates and keep them, to make friends aware that I need this right now. To show people I am committed to the whole deal, and honor them by showing up. It isn't about them judging me, and it is almost offensive that I would ever of thought that, but I couldn't see past my own thought processes at the time. I'm 100% positive if I had opened a conversation with any of my friends asking if my weight was a problem in our relationship, they wold have said no, but for me I couldn't see past my image issues.
Getting back to my first counselling appointment. I had seen Bill before for another issue, and felt comfortable with him, as he really makes me think outside the box. He doesn't concentrate on 'how does it make you feel", however takes your concerns, and really gives you the tools you need to change your thought processes, and make a plan for when these situations comes up. It was our first meeting so we discussed the surgery, why I chose to do this, and what I want my outcome to be. It is good to speak to someone who puts things in perspective, that offers other ways to look at a situation, and comforts your thoughts and opinions as just that...thoughts and opinions not letting them define you.

I am sure you will hear much more about this as I go.

Saturday:

This week has been a series of firsts for me. Lasting this long on liquids alone has been surreal. A month ago, two months ago, and six months ago, all I was thinking is how on earth will I survive this liquid stage. Who in their right mind would agree with this. I had several sleepless nights, moments shaded with anxiety, and a whole bunch of fear driven self doubt moments. Well here I am, about to wrap up this stage of my diet (in 2 days), and I survived....I mean I really did. Was it the hardest thing I have ever done....absolutely, the amount of will power it has taken me, surpasses even my darkest moments in life.

I am proud of myself, I am confident now that I could do anything. I put myself in situations to test my own strength and made it. Were there times of doubts...YES, did I eat a few slow bites of Peanut Butter....YES, BUT 99% of the time it was full liquids, and I stayed at approx. 300 Calories the entire time. Most days not even able to do that. This drinking 2lts of liquid a day though, gotta say, I never once made it close to that goal. Thank goodness I never got dehydrated, but let me tell you it was hard.

The average person doesn't realize what not eating does to you, to your body, to you world. Going out for my walk each day is hard to do, its hard to get my ass up and move. I am exhausted, with lack of energy from not eating, my body is essentially shutting down. Literally starving to death. Ive gone and done the research, looked at how long a person can live like this, and its some scary facts. I'm grateful this is set up in a way that we get the basic needs to sustain life (Protein, Vitamins, and water).
Each day all I wanna do is sleep, but I pick myself up, go for that walk, and try to live a semi productive life within the means I can right now. I am so happy with the weight loss thus far, but dread the next stage as its a known fact with WLS patients that your first stall comes at week 3 when you start purees. This can last 1-3 weeks, so I have to mentally prepare myself for this. Its a hard thing to do when you have such a yearning for that scale to move. I mean, I'm not eating, so its hard to understand why its frozen, BUT I know its normal. I will take my Measurements on the 1st of march and then keep track as you will loose inches during this next stage opposed to lbs.

Anyways enough rambling for now. S
Catch you up next week....Fingies crossed that I will be mentally okay.
Pop up and say Hi this next week.
I have a feeling I will need support and love!

Stay Tuned~ Nat
Body/Mind Under Construction






















Saturday, February 20, 2016

FEB 20 2016

FEB 20 2016

Down 3 more pounds. YES!!!!

People are funny. I am on a few support groups and one thing that really surprises me, and sadly doesn't all at the same time is how cruel of a world we live in. Some people really struggle with horrible bullying, peoples acceptance and fat shamming that shouldn't be tolerated. I am so lucky that I surround myself with the people I do, that love me unconditionally. I realise some people who know me may not get my choices or even think I'm off my rocker, or even may say stuff behind my back, however I am a confident enough person to know their thoughts or words don't matter. I worry about people who are not confident enough, I see their pain through words, the way they talk of no love or support, and it breaks my heart. A lot of people I met in Mexico had not even shared their story with loved ones, or friends, or no one. They are doing this solely on their own, and that is so sad. I chose to be transparent for me, as I knew it would help my journey, and make me accountable, but not live a lie...but that was for me. I respect all in their choices, I just wish I could unread the fat shamming comments or have a talk with those people making them. I have no problem calling them out. It irks me, not only that we live in a world where this still exists, but that people hurt so deeply from it. And also all the comments I am reading about this being the easy way out. People just don't understand and this is where those thought processes come from. I think these people are just un-educated on the journey, and think you go for surgery and that fixes everything. Well rest a sure, this journey isn't the easy way out. Read my blog and you will know this is the toughest thing I have ever done. The will power it takes is mind blowing. You still fight for every pound you take off. I was talking to one lady who was getting it pretty bad, and she was so defeated and wanted to turn to cake, and I let her know they would win if she did that. Its not about the cake, but the mental/emotional part of being mad fun of that needs comforting....and food cant be that comfort anymore. Sometimes people need help, need assistance and for everyone on this journey if it were as easy as just eating salad, and exercising I'm sure we would have a world of skinny or healthy people. Its not that easy, and some of us need that bit of help to get us healthy. I am so lucky I have people around that get that, are patient with me, and will hold me when I have weak moments. All I can do is be a support to those feeling it, and make sure they know someone cares.

LAST NIGHT
So last night I woke up in the worst pain. I think now that my belly is feeling good, I finally am getting into some deep sleep, and I must have moved wrong, and oh the shooting pain was brutal (I'm sleeping propped up due to a car accident injury so I'm esp. uncomfortable), and luckily subsided pretty fast with some deep breaths.

This morning my sugars were low and I felt weak and tired. No energy so I made a chocolate shake with a scoop of peanut butter. This will help my energy and give me extra protein I need.

Going out to get my 1/2hr walk in around Walmart today so I can pick up a few things.
Walk complete, plus a walk later with dog and Chris.
Chris tried to re-create the Bean Broth we had in Mexico, not quite the same but enough to make me love him so much for trying. It doesn't matter it is still delish, and a change from turkey. YUM. When done we will puree the beans for that stage.

**Now that I am back from Mexico, I will go back to writing once a week. I'm sure you'all would get mighty bored with hearing about another day of liquids I drank. At least each week I'll have more to report.

Thanks for following me on my journey!


Stay Tuned ~ Nat :)
Body Under Construction

Friday, February 19, 2016

FEB 19 2016 SURGERY PHOTOS

FEB 19 2016   SURGERY PHOTOS
I hope these photos help anyone wanting the surgery to show them exactly what the procedure is. I didn't include any graphic phots as I'm sure none needs to see those. If you are curious just ask, as some procedures could not be documented.

The Marriot:
Is a fabulous hotel. WLS patients are checked in really quickly with no issues, and given a note explaining what is included for you during your stay. Broths, jello, water, popsicles, and your companion gets 15% off all at the hotel. There is a shuttle service for free to all patients that will get them to and from the hospitals or clinics where they are going. I met several patients there for all sorts of surgeries, and the hotel is quite equipped to deal with anything.


 My Surgery:
At Florence Hospital, from the time you get there to the time you leave the staff are extremely great at looking after you. They take care of all your needs and your companions needs. And I don't have to gush about Dr. Z enough, as he is truly the best Doctor I have ever had the privilege in meeting.

 We laughed as each day on everything they brought me, my name was spelt different which was kinda fun to see what they called me next!

Me outside the Florence Hospital.

 Prepped and ready for surgery

 Getting my IV line in.

 Getting my EKG testing done
 Getting compression socks on, and anxiety meds to get me ready for surgery.

 The room, with spare bed for Chris.




The SURGERY
 Heading down hall for surgery





BIGGEST MOMENT: Waking up

Waking up after surgery. 1st time in my life I wasn't ill after waking up. Before I was put out the anesthesiologist asked me how I was after waking up, and I told him I always wake up throwing up, and he said you wont this time, and I didn't. AMAZING.


AFTER SURGERY:
 Walking with my drain on.
 1st food: ice chips
 Walking the hallways the whole 1st night
 Breathing inhaling exercises

 Walking and talking with the wonderful ROSA.

 1st OFFICIAL MEAL




Me & Dr. Z:
POST OP

PRE-OP





LAST DAY - awaiting ride to San Diego.






















FEB 19 2016 SAN DIEGO PHOTOS

FEB 19 2016  SAN DIEGO PHOTOS
*It was nice to spend a few days before the surgery relaxing.
I was sore from accident but adjusted so I cold enjoy some of it.
We got some great photos.

FLAGSHIP WHALE WATCHING TOURS.
perfect as you just get to sit and enjoy natures show.







SAN DIEGO SAFARI
They have buses, carts, and tons of ways to explore the park.







 SAN DIEGO ZOO












 SEAPORT VILLAGE

 
 MORE WHALE WATCHING